© 2020 Stephi Wagner, MSW


Have you tried everything and nothing is actually helping?

I hear you. You are NOT alone.


The vast majority of my Partners Clients come to working with me after trying to find support from traditional couples therapy and mental health professionals only to find that the "help" was not helpful - at best - and harmful - at worst.


Once we realize that our struggles in our partnerships are ultimately rooted in the mother wound (i.e. the pain of patriarchy), we have an aha moment - approaches and providers still stuck in patriarchy  cannot help us unstuck our partnerships from patriarchy! 

 It all makes so much sense! 


You've had that aha moment and now you're ready for help that actually helps you in your partnership. I get it, and I would absolutely love the opportunity to support you at this important time. To get started, please click here.

Areas of Support

  • Conflict Skills Transformation

  • Rebuilding Trust After Trauma

  • From Distance to Connection

  • The Misogyny in the Middle

  • Navigating Divorce/Separation

  • In-Law/Extended Family Troubleshooting

  • Blending Families Peacefully

  • Co-Healing from Pregnancy and Child Loss

  • Co-Parenting with Respect

  • Healthy Communication Development

  • Sex and Physical Intimacy Healing

  • From Criticism to Collaboration

  • Parenting with DifferenceTogether 

  • Death and Bereavement 

  • Emotional Intimacy Healing

  • Transitions and Big Decisions

  • When Childhood Pain Collides

  • And Much More...


Single Session ~ $225

  • 1 60-minute joint session via video or phone call

  • 1-year subscription to my secret, members-only Facebook group for both partners

Connection Package ~ $1450

  • 1 60-minute individual session via video or phone call for each partner

  • 5 60-minute joint private sessions via video or phone call (8 sessions total)

  • Confidential text/email support between individual/joint sessions for each partner

  • Lifetime access to my secret, members-only Facebook group for both partners

Harmony Package ~ $3850

  • 2 60-minute individual sessions via video or phone call for each partner

  • 16 60-minute joint sessions via video or phone call (20 sessions total)

  • Confidential text/email support between individual/joint sessions for both partners

  • Lifetime access to my secret, members-only Facebook group for both partners

  • 3 20-minute phone calls to be used as needed during our time together

*Accommodations available by request.

What to Expect

First Steps: After you fill out this awesome form, I will reach out to you to schedule your free 30 - minute consult. This consult is held over video call or by phone, whichever you prefer (accommodations available upon request). This is a great time to ask me any questions you might have and to get a feel for what working with me is like before you commit your time and your resources to working with me.


Next Steps: From here, you will get to decide how I can best serve you - a single session or a multi-session package with between session text-support - instead of posting your questions in a group on Facebook, you can just text me.


Where: Your sessions will be held via video call or phone from wherever you happen to be - PJs welcome, shoes completely optional. I meet with clients while they are in their offices, in their cars, on their couches, in their backyards, and even while their babies are napping down the hall.


How Long: Sessions run for 1 hour. The WHOLE hour. None of that icky stuff where I call it an hour but kick you out early.

When: What works best for you? To accommodate my clients all around the globe, I offer sessions in the morning, afternoon, and evening, depending on the individual day. When I meet with clients across the ocean, sometimes one of us is just starting the day or about to head to bed. 


Cancellation Policy: I don't have one. If you need to cancel your session with me, please go right ahead and cancel your session. Life happens. I get it. I want you free to live your life without worrying about me or late fees. We can reschedule your session at a time that works better for you - no questions asked, no problem at all.


Emergency Support: If you purchase a coaching package, I do my very best to accommodate requests for emergency sessions. I am typically able to schedule these within 48 hours of request.